During our pre-cana seminar at Mary the Queen, the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman was mentioned in two of the scheduled talks. Rozen gave us the book a couple of months back, though we have yet to read it, but the quick talk and the questionnaire actually helped.
Here are the 5 Love Languages
They've provided an idea about which Love Language works for you, and what works for your partner. As an example, as a girl, you might feel that you are being ignored since your husband doesn't say "I love you" enough (Words of Affirmation), but it turns out that rather than saying the words, he would rather pick you up from work, or run errands for you because that's his love language (Acts of Service).
You can access it here
Your love language actually change through time, it's possible that you are into gifts now, and years after you'll switch to quality time. What's important is you understand what you and your partner needs to continuously feel loved.
So, what's your love language?
Here are the 5 Love Languages
Words of Affirmation,
Quality Time,
Receiving Gifts,
Acts of Service, and
Physical Touch.
They've provided an idea about which Love Language works for you, and what works for your partner. As an example, as a girl, you might feel that you are being ignored since your husband doesn't say "I love you" enough (Words of Affirmation), but it turns out that rather than saying the words, he would rather pick you up from work, or run errands for you because that's his love language (Acts of Service).
If you haven't done it yet, we strongly suggest that you take the profile test.
You can access it here
Your love language actually change through time, it's possible that you are into gifts now, and years after you'll switch to quality time. What's important is you understand what you and your partner needs to continuously feel loved.
So, what's your love language?
The book is good as well. :)
ReplyDeleteOh and by the way, my love language is Quality Time and Physical Touch...hindi nman obvious dba? hahahaha - Stitch
ReplyDeleteay no, super hindi obvious! haha!
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